Sand and fog meet at the horizon, and I can't tell how far it goes until I look at a map. If we stayed here for two more hours, the tide would swallow up the road and we'd be stranded here for the night. I feel grateful to be here.
Lindisfarne, also known as Holy Island, is on the northeastern coast of England and holds meaning to people for many reasons--6th century Celtic Christianity, viking invasions, architecture, nature--making it a relatively popular spot for a tiny island accessible only during low tide.
Because we're time-bound, I have to prioritize what to explore (even though there really is enough time to see almost everything). I head to the visitor center where I find a very thoughtfully curated museum that has what you might expect about the town's history, but it also has binders of narratives written by people who grew up here as a way to preserve their stories.
I skimmed as many as I could and learned some of what it was like to grow up in this small town which also happens to be very historically significant. I read about a fisherman who loved playing catch with his dad near the marsh, the local nurse and her commute, the local school teacher, a bird enthusiast, a textile artist... I decide that this will be the lens I'll use to explore.
The museum also had some quilts on display, all beautiful, but one which showed incredibly intricate patterns that were cut, layered, and sewn together.
And then I felt that feeling again.
There are moments when a muscle memory kicks in--a habit of "this is when I would call papa and we'll crack jokes and share our reflections." Since he passed, this urge to call him is swallowed, absorbed, and re-channeled into messaging someone a simple "I miss my dad." He would have loved hearing about this place, and eventually agreed with me that the quilt was actually very cool because it would remind him of the various weaving techniques from India we thought were cool. Or maybe simply because I liked it.
So I tell Kendon that I miss my dad.
And then I go to the marsh where the fisherman played with his dad. It is now a bird sanctuary, and I wonder whether the bird enthusiast was somehow involved. I walked through abbeys and cemeteries and winding roads and open fields and felt grateful that people took the time to write their stories so that I could feel all of the memories that are buried here.
These are some of my favorite moments and, in many ways, why I love to travel. It's because I love people. I love learning about them, talking to them, putting myself in their shoes and remembering, feeling, the web of interconnectedness that humans are part of. Monuments are great, and I do love old rocks, but the things I cherish the most are the conversations and moments where I feel like I get to learn about a person and their life and why places that may seem like others are actually very special. Everywhere is very special, if you ask the right person.